So as I have mentioned before none of JR's family was able to make it for Landry's party two weeks ago. Well, okay - so they couldn't make it. It would have been nice for ONE of them to make it, but it was especially hurtful that collectively none of them could make it. But to make things worse that family is FAKE. They drive me nuts. When JR and I first met, I wanted his family to like me. I got sucked in to their crazy gossip, but when I first met them all they did was talk badly about Lisa - JR's brother's wife. At the time they weren't married yet, and I had only met her once but I just went along with what they all said because, I figured hey if all three of these ADULT women feel this way and what they are saying is true, then Lisa must not be a very good person. Then we all got together and I was amazed to see how they all flocked to her, were so nice to her...It was Mother's day 2007 that I realized for the first time, that if I was going to hang out with these women or try to fit in with them, I would have to revert back to high school...something I wasn't willing to do.
They do all these things that drive me nuts. Brittany gets upset (or acts like she does) when Logan doesn't want to hug her...ummmmmm He doesn't know you. I mean come on he only sees her a handful of times in a single year....he doesn't know who she is. This past year has been much better now that he is older...but whatever, you can't expect a 3 year old to be so excited to see someone that he only sees 4 times a year. Anyway, there are a lot of thing that are pretty little, just like this - but they drive me crazy.
Another thing that they do is comment on my facebook...oh I love him...Oh I miss them sooo much! - Can't wait to see them! - BULLSHIT - you have every chance to see them, you just choose not to....unless of course it benefits them in some way....i.e - Oh, we miss you guys and want to see your new house. Is there a weekend we can come down. - Oh and by the way, we are going to bring a flock of friends, all stay at your house so we dont have to spend money on a hotel room, and then go float the river!! Thanks, it was so good to see you!
So, I have been deleting the comments on my facebook....I know its childish, but I dont want their fake ass comments on my page. Then on Friday Lacy commented for the first time in- I dont know, 6-7 months - and of course I deleted it. She followed up by sending me an email, demanding to know why I was deleting the comments, and then gave me an ultimatum saying that if I didn't respond to the email - her HOUSTON family was done with me! LOL My first reaction was to respond...oh I had so many things to say...BUT - I chose not to. THe thing is, I know these women...its all about the drama with them - and I am not going to fuel the fire. I have nothing nice to say to them, so I just wont say anything at all. But what is funny about her being the one to email me is this....Lisa and Brittany cried to Lacy because neither of them has the guts to say something on their own...so they cried to Lacy she posted a comment, and then went back to check if it was deleted, then emailed me. Now Carol is bitching that I am not understanding enough...Fuck you - Your right, I dont understand how you can go on a cruise at a moment's notice, but you cant save up some gas money to come to your ONLY granddaughter's 1st birthday! Hmmm...Brittany couldn't make it because she didn't think her car would make it, Carol couldn't come because she didn't have money for gas...seems to me they could ride together and split the gas money! Whoa...a solution to both of their problems! The truth is, they didn't come because they weren't going to get anything out of it! My kids deserve better than that. I am just sad that my kids dont have wonderful grandmother like I did, and still do. BOTH, my mom and carol SUCK as a grandparent!
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